Sexual tension – is something like foreplay, but partially or completely without physical interaction. This is a feeling that literally heats the air between two people experiencing attraction to each other.
Flirting in a way is also an element that causes sexual tension, even if not at a high level. It is interesting that sexual tension can be unconscious for one or both people, which causes a misunderstanding of these pleasant emotions in attempts to unravel them.
If you want to provoke sexual tension in a lady, making her desire you, there are several time-tested ways. Of course, not every one of them will work, because all ladies are different, so experiment.
Use hidden eye contact
To show a person that you care and are interested, you need eye contact. But in the case of sexual tension, you can’t be so obvious. To arouse interest, look at her carefully when she is not looking in your direction. It is best to do this in cases where her face is in profile, so that she can feel the look on herself. When she turns around, look away.
If you get caught playing this game, smile and look away. This will make the lady think in a positive way about what you have in mind.
Make sexual compliments
Of course, we are talking about a situation where sexual tension is created between people who have mutual feelings for each other. If a lady looks more sexual today than usual, don’t hesitate to let her know. The main thing is to make it clear that you admire her in a sexual way.
At the same time, the compliment should only remotely hint at an erotic subtext, and not speak directly. It is this understatement that will allow you to ignite sexual tension in her.
Correctly violate her personal space
We often talk about the fact that you can’t violate personal space. The same story here, but this rule can be broken in one case: if both people feel something more for each other than just friendship. When sexual tension begins to hover between you, you can get close to her so that you almost touch her. This can be done, for example, in a crowded elevator, on the way home in public transport, at a meeting before work, and so on.
The advantage of such a “violation” of personal space is that, unlike full physical contact, there will be no release of tension, it will increase every second. And this is in some ways even more pleasant than physical interaction, even such an intimate one as sex.
Make lingering touches
Physical contact can also cause sexual tension, despite the seeming obviousness of the actions. Moreover, the difference between a normal touch like a handshake and one that is an attempt to cause sexual tension is manifested in the style of contact and duration. For example, if she asked you to help with a freezing computer, you can put your hand on top of hers, which, in turn, lies on the mouse.
If this caused a negative reaction, you can apologize and say that you did not notice.
Creating sexual tension between you, try to use lingering touches more often, especially if she understands the rules of the game and also uses similar tactics. The main thing is that it is not obvious, but as if an accidental touch to the arm, shoulder or other part of the body within the bounds of decency.
Let her accidentally see something that is usually hidden from view
No dickpics – this is an extremely bad idea that can only push a lady away.
Keep your genitals for an intimate setting where the lady will not mind looking. We are talking about something less obvious, but also sexual. For example, many ladies like the look of a toned press.
You could casually exhibit it, say, stretching so the t-shirt rides up a bit and shows off your abs, if you have them. If not, a regular male belly turns women on just as much as men are turned on by the sight of a female belly.
Employ a cunning goodbye kiss
Imagine a scenario where you both like each other and you are seeing her off after a first date. You really want to kiss her on the lips, but if you want to create sexual tension and at the same time not show that at this moment you are able to jump out of your pants on the run, you can use the “oblique” kiss technique.
The point is that when you say goodbye, you kiss her on the cheek, but very close to the edge of her lip or earlobe. So it’s like you just wanted to kiss her on the cheek, but “accidentally” missed and got close to one of the erogenous zones on her face.
Lower the volume of your voice and slow it down
Many guys underestimate the power of their voice and its impact on girls. They babble so much that it is possible to grasp only the essence of what was said, and not individual words. We understand that it’s about excitement, but try to calm it down. The most charming thing for girls is a calm voice that flows at an unhurried pace, like music.
At the same time, you can lower the tone of your voice, making it deeper, which will enhance the effect of charm. By the way, if you are with a girl in a fairly loud place, this clever trick will allow you to “draw” her closer to you so that she can hear what you said better.
